Nudısm and naturalısm

NUDISM AND NATURALISMI thought the funniest line in BLAME IT ON RIO was Michael Caine?s when he was explaining that he did not handle nudity well. He said sometimes when he is getting undressed he catches himself ?turning away? even though he is the only one there. Well most of us are nude when we shower at home but most of us are not nude when we bathe in the sea. We in the minority who enjoy being nude occasionally in the great outdoors can be divided into mischievous skinny dippers and the more dedicated nudists. I?m a skinny dipper and nude sun bather and I?m just short of the point of being a real for honest nudist. I like to be with other people when all clothing is shed by the group if the dynamics of the group seems right. But I?ve never been tempted by nude bowling, nude bicycling, nude tennis, and being where my nudity would be a bother to others. Some people claim that they can divorce their nude state from sexuality. They say one can enjoy ?naturalism? and social nudity without extra sexual overtones. I don?t buy it. It is not true for me anyway. I sort of like the heightened sexual atmosphere of nude bodies in and around the pool. I sometimes sunbathe in the nude alone to get some tan and to get some good vitamin D but when I?m nude in a group I am very aware of certain sexual currents that are present at the scene. When I?m nude, I?m advertising a certain openness. I don?t expect guys to always look me in the eye and to act uninterested in the display I?m putting forward. My tits are out, my ass is showing, my pubic hair (when not shaven clean) is there for all to see. And my hope is that my body is a pleasing sight in an artistic esoteric way and I hope it is also a pleasing sight in an overtly sexual way. Some of us are shy by nature and some of us are more daring. Some are shy because they have concerns about their overall shape or a part problem such as guys worry about ?shrinkage? to use the Seinfeld line. Guys want a dick that hangs down well when not aroused. They want a dick that stands up long and proud when they are aroused. Some that have it all are still worried that they may get erect at a socially improper time. Girls worry about any feature they think is below par. Breasts can be too small or too droopy. Areolas can be too big or too small. Five extra pounds looks like 35 extra when some girls look in the mirror. Then there are others who may be carrying 100 extra pounds and they are not shy at all even though some may wish they were. My advice to guys who are afraid of presenting a small package is to work on arm muscles, shoulder muscles, abs, and gluts and forget about your initial package size. Girls like guys that look good in clothes and can be good arm candy. Very few girls really give a flip about whether your erection is four inches long or eight. And some girls prefer four. A real turn on is a guy who is fit and self-confident. Another good thing is the ability to get a good erection so don?t worry about getting one at the wrong time. We know that building that sand castle is not giving you the erection, it is that girl watching. Nudity does not allow a girl to dress to highlight her body type. She has to learn to put her best foot forward without clothing. She may consider herself to be too flat-chested, too narrow assed, and physically awkward yet some guy is likely to go nuts over her overall look, her pussy crack on display, her hair, her smile, or something about her. I was at Choctaw Creek once with about ten nude people and eight that were in swimming suits. A tall, and too skinny brunette was wearing a black string bikini that holstered her strong feature, big sloshy breasts pushing way out from her skinny ribs. A nude guy was chatting her up and she smiled a lot at him but was staying on a towel with her girlfriend who was also wearing a swimsuit. The guy gave up and left for a while and went swimming in the creek. Later he came back to her towel area dripping wet and started putting the moves on again. This time she seemed a bit more interested and soon the guy was sporting an erection. He had about a normal six inches. He asked her if she would like to go in and swim and she turned to her girlfriend who motioned her to go on. The two went into the swimming hole and kept talking. At this gathering of nude people there was no open sex going on. But there were some erections to be seen. The brunette and her nice guy eventually went upstream past the shoals to the next more secluded pool. I got curious so I walked a little trail to a spot with a view of that pool. And wouldn?t you know it. The brunette was standing in a few inches of water with her top and bottoms off. She was busy making out with her new friend. I didn?t want to be a secret voyeur so I decided to walk into the secluded shallow pool and hoped it would not disrupt them. They ignored me even though I was nude and only five yards away. They made out for a few more minutes and then went over to a tiny adjacent meadow a few yards from the stream and the brunette leaned over and received the erection of a guy she had never seen before that day at the creek. The foliage did not screen their activity from me and I could see her swaying breasts and his meat penetrating her. Her dark wet stringy hair and skinny body was about to fall from being fucked hard from behind. It was a hot scene and the only sex action I saw that day. I think the guy?s efforts at talking the girl up were assisted by his erection even though his length was nothing to write home about. But it was still a hard on and it was a compliment to the girl and a genuine compliment, not just a line. There is a certain honesty in nudity.